Thursday, August 09, 2007

Conversations with Tali

My son's list of school supplies has arrived in the mail. In addition, his uniform list is here. It's time to do my first "official" back to school shopping for my Tali.

As I sat there last night, reading his list, I had to smile. I know that down the road, I probably won't enjoy school shopping like I will this weekend. I have visions of a surly teenaged son being dragged to the store, arguing with me over styles and overpriced sneakers.

This time out, Tali and I will shop together. He will be excited as we pick out his knapsack and lunchbox (Hmmm...Spiderman or Transformers?). He will agonize over which pencils are the coolest. I will swing through the aisles with pride oozing out of every pore.

Last night, we were sitting on the couch together reading "Don't L.et the P.igeon Drive the Bus!" for the 300th time. Tali says to me..."Mom, can you believe I made it into that school?" "Of course!", I said. "You worked hard and because of that, they chose you. Hard work is the key son. It's not always about who is the smartest or fastest.....Mommy just wants you to work hard and to always do your best."

"Mom"

"Yes"

"I think I made it in because you and Daddy always do work with me."

"We do. But the 1969's always help each other. We're a family."

"I think my family might be the best in the whole world."

"I think you're right."

"I am."

23 Comments:

Blogger proacTiff said...

Heart be still. You seem like a great mom with an equally great son.

5:55 AM  
Blogger Drea said...

Aww, that is so sweet. Now make sure to save this conversation and show it to him when he is a teenager and thinks that his parents suck! You will still be great parents but for some reason when they become teenagers they think you know nothing and that you are out to make their lives miserable! LOL

6:22 AM  
Blogger DurtyMo said...

How freaking cute is that???? *sigh* LOL@pro and her heart being still.. LOL!

6:23 AM  
Blogger BZ said...

OK, I just wanna hug you and Tali both! That is sooooooooooooooo cute! Have a blast with your shopping this weekend!

6:37 AM  
Blogger Miz JJ said...

Now he is definitely getting those expensive sneakers. Kidding. That is really cute. I like children that understand the world does not revolve around them.

7:22 AM  
Blogger So...Wise...Sista said...

Oh oh! Remember the episode where Theo got the earring and him and Cliff were on the bed and he was trying to hide it!

You Huxtables are the best! :)

7:47 AM  
Blogger Little Brown Girl said...

Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwww! My nephew is growing so fast. LOL!! Seriously though...you're blessed chica and you know it so I'll hush now.

8:57 AM  
Blogger Jameil said...

awwwwww!!! adorable!!!

9:00 AM  
Blogger Organized Noise said...

That was cute. I look forward to the day I have conversations like that with my children.

9:12 AM  
Blogger Ms. Lee said...

You and Mr. 1969 are creating a legacy, girl. Tali is special!

9:25 AM  
Blogger Amadeo said...

Did you guys have list as long as the supplies my office uses, my co-worker was telling me about the supply list for her 7 year old's school. I asked if she has to bring her own teacher as well. They make kids get hand sanitizer!

9:29 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Don't go embarrassing the shorty with wack stuff okay? No fruity looking pencil holders or colored folders a'ight. Keep it gully. Yeah I know he's only 5 but still...

10:36 AM  
Blogger 1969 said...

Amadeo....he not only has to bring in hand sanitizer, he has to bring in three boxes of tissue and two rolls of paper towels.

Fresh? WHAT THE HELL ARE FRUITY LOOKING PENCIL HOLDERS? Ha Ha.
He already told me he wants a transformers backpack. Uh, yeah....you and every other five year old boy.

11:11 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

1969, what a sweet post about the conversation you had w/your son. I hope he has a wonderful first day!


I'm new to your site so I read some of your older post and had a mini cry fest. Your post from August 15, 2006 was truly beautiul.
Some of the same feelings I have, I see you once had....I hope to find some peace of mind, one day soon...

11:34 AM  
Blogger 1969 said...

Lynn...welcome to my blog. Thanks so much for taking the time to re-read my old stuff. That post is actually one of my favorites. My Dad actually read it (my step sister read it and gave it to him) and it has helped us to talk and move forward even more.

12:59 PM  
Blogger onefromphilly said...

Awww, first day of kindergarden..*sigh*
Fresh is right..no fruity pencil holders!! lol

I have a surly teenager, and I still buy fruity folders and megacolored pens and pencils just to piss him off. HA!

1:01 PM  
Blogger T.a.c.D said...

i am so happy he got into the school and that is the sweetest thing ever!!! *smiling*

2:04 PM  
Blogger Erica Bunker said...

Awww... what a great conversation... out of the mouth of babes! Today was the first day of school here... All of the fees, school supplies, new clothes... wow! I think I need to take out a loan!

3:51 PM  
Blogger Virtuous said...

Just precious! *dabs corner of eye*

5:40 PM  
Blogger CreoleInDC said...

I could VISUALIZE this happening! That was just beautiful Chica! Your family sounds AWESOME!

5:59 PM  
Blogger Liz Dwyer said...

Aww...what a precious boy! Kids say the best things, don't they?

6:58 PM  
Blogger BK said...

AWH.. that made me tear up!!!!! GO HEAD TALI #1!!!!!

he is so damn smart..

LOL @ fresh and the fruity looking pencils LMAO.. yeah u can't have him with the wack stuff.. LOL

enjoy it this year cause next year you won't even take him with you LMAO

6:29 AM  
Blogger Nikita T. Mitchell said...

SO BEAUTIFUL! I can't wait to have kids someday. I hope I'm as great of a mom!

3:15 AM  

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