The Daughter of a Black Man wants to know.....

There's no secret that I LOVE ME SOME ROYCEE. This beautiful, intelligent sister is so deep. When you read her blog, you want to get to know her in person. She's witty, spunky, spiritual and wise beyond her years. She dresses her behind off, loves to read and travel and will still roll through the streets with you and have your back. Many of you get to enjoy her blog....I get to call her my sister for life....SKEE WEE, SOROR. Here are her questions.....Damn....she knows me too well...LOL



You’ve just passed away and learned that God is still on the fence about whether or not you will chill with Him for all of eternity or take the red elevator all the way down to the ground floor (you feel me?). Out of the kindness of His heart, God decides to give you one last chance to persuade Him and allows you 3 minutes to convince Him why He should let you into the pearly gates…what is your argument?

God...I know I have been far from perfect and for this I ask Your forgiveness. Temptations and distractions sidetracked me many times when I was feeling weak or unsure of myself but I always came back to You or sought You out when I knew I was slipping. I always recognized that I would only get this far with You. Even if you choose not to grant me a chance, please know that I never let my shortcomings affect my personal love of You and my faith in You has never wavered. I raised two children to love You and put You first in their lives and I hope for that act, You will grant me access to Your Kingdom.


Tali 1 has left for his freshman year of college and right before his first official break he asks if he can bring his new girlfriend home with him for the week (7 days)…you and Mr. Sixty are reluctant but later agree…and when the day comes you hear his key in the door around the time they are scheduled to arrive…in walks your oldest child, followed closely by his WHITE girlfriend…OHMY, what does Mrs. Sixty do?

I really do believe that Tali 1 would tell me that he was bringing a White young lady home way before she hit the door. If you knew him, you would know that Tali 1 shares EVERYTHING with me. LOL

However, I will go along with your little question....Heffa. :)

I would hide my initial shock and then I would treat her like any other girl that Tali would bring home. I would want to know all about her. When it comes to my sons and the future woman in their lives, I just want to make sure she has a good head on her shoulders, conducts herself like a lady and that she can stand up for herself, keep them in line but still treat them with respect and love. She also has to be able to compliment their personality and have goals. If she doesn't meet THAT criteria, he and I will have a talk when she leaves. My list for a good woman encompasses her character more than her color. Now you need to ask how Mr. 1969 would act.....that's a better question.

You’ve made it to heaven after a very long and full life and Mr. Sixty (who passed a year before you) and “Mr. SeeYouNextLifeTime” are both there waiting to greet you...you have to choose who you spend eternity with and you can only choose one, who do you choose?

Roycee...you know me so well. I struggle with this question all the time internally. Of course, it's a question I probably will face one day but I am confident that God will work this out for me. I can only guess at what will await me in Heaven. Somehow, I dont think it will be ex-boyfriend vs, husband drama. The Big Guy has bigger things in store for me.

I can't choose one cause I don't really know. *sigh* I really don't know.


Alpha Kappa Alpha and Delta Sigma Theta were never founded…but you still have to choose---Sigma Gamma Rho or Zeta Phi Beta? Whatchugonedo Cletus?!?!?

You know, both of these organizations are great ones. Powerful sisters doing powerful things. However....I would have to say that I know more Zeta's and my cousin is a Zeta....so I might have to go to the Blue and White. However, the SGRho's that I do know are cool as heck....shouts out to my girl Jameil1922!

You’ve just learned that you won $50 million dollars but you have to spend it within 24 hours, what do you spend it on (and can I borrow about $500K)?
Easy....split the remaining $49,500,000 into two trust funds for my children and spend the remaining 23 hours enjoying my entire family's company once we landed my charter flight in Trinidad.